Tag Archives: Purpose

As hard as it is sometimes, we have to learn to just let things be! This is SO very hard for me. You see, I’m a fixer! I want to FIX everybody! My hearts true desire is for people to love and be loved. For them to see their own worth and value. I am by nature a nurturer so I struggle with people that are suffering. As I move forward in ministry I’m learning that everybody don’t want to be fixed! Everybody don’t want my help! Everybody has to process in their own way! Lastly, I’ve learned that after I’ve done all that God requires of me to leave the rest to HIM! I can’t keep walking around carrying everybody’s mess! Some people feel most comfortable in chaos and messy situations. Oh no, not me! I’m learning to pray for them, and leave it all up to the Lord. It’s truly above me! I thank God for that morning revelation! Now y’all pray that I am consistent in allowing God to move, and not relying on self! Happy Wednesday everybody. Be safe, be blessed, and know that you are loved! ❤️

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Happy Saturday! While it isn’t how I expected my Saturday to be, I am yet blessed. I am so thankful that I serve a God that looks beyond my faults! Man, that right there will preach! Lol. Y’all ever go through something and just feel so overwhelmed that you truly don’t know how you’re gonna survive it? Life is funny like that huh? The mere situations that you think will destroy who and what you are, are the very ones that have been sent to test your faith. It doesn’t matter what I go through, I will get through it. I may not understand and it may hurt, but I will survive. I was just built like that! A TRUE survivor! I see it like this, if God can take both my parents, my only support system in 10 days, and it’s been almost 2 years and I’m still here…..I can survive just about anything! Today, I challenge you to press in and press forward. It gets hard, it gets lonely, and most often you feel like nobody understands, just know that you’ll make it. Be safe, be blessed, and KNOW that I love you! ❤️ Happy Saturday! 😊

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A moment of transparency….

While most people were sleeping last night, I laid awake processing my life and my plans vs God’s plan. I laid there thinking, wondering, and asking God when he will answer my prayers. While I do thank him for all he’s already done, I am ever curious about the things HE’s still gonna do. Meanwhile, I read and stumbled across things on social media that actually brought so much more clarity. I was reminded of my strengths and definitely some of the areas that I fall short in. What I did affirm in those quiet hours of reflection is that I AM ENOUGH. I don’t have to look like, act like, talk like, or pretend to be anything or anyone else. Im not for everybody, and everybody is not for me. God is wanting me to embrace the woman I’ve become and the woman HE has called me to be. It’s funny to watch yourself evolve right in the midst of transition. I forgive a little faster, I love a little harder, I work harder at being more understanding, and I am definitely learning patience. This process is NOT for the faint at heart, but for those who are willing to push through. The things that used to bring me tears and cause my heart to grieve are no longer. I have awaken, and I have ARRIVED! Today I can be grateful for every hurt, every disappointment, and every situation that has molded me into being the BEST version of me. I am so excited about the things God is doing. I just can’t keep it to myself. Have a wonderful day. Be safe, be blessed, and know that you are loved. ❤️

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Just a thought. So, I was scrolling FB this morning and came across a meme that basically says we make the choice each day to either be healed or unhealed. This is such a profound way of looking at life. I agree that we don’t always get to live as we choose and sometimes circumstances and situations make living each a day little more difficult, but ultimately we have a choice on how we handle it. We can either sit in an unhealthy, bound, stuck situation or we can make the choice to live beyond our fears and failures! Even though I tread in unfamiliar territory and remain in constant battle between how I feel and pushing toward my purpose, I choose to LIVE no matter what! I can, and I will survive! Live, love, and die with purpose and for a purpose. Have an awesome Saturday and know that you are loved. ❤️ Be safe, be blessed……

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Day 21

It’s a New Season! After all that you have endured and been through you’ve finally come to the realization that, it is well. You’ve been hurt, you’ve suffered, and yet you are still here! God is so good. He has allowed this season of your life to come so that your faith could be maximized. Your current situation is not your final destination! I’ve learned that in order to grow you have to be patient with the process. The process isn’t meant to break you, but it is meant to put you in a place of total dependency on God. Nothing and nobody has the capacity to bring you out or get you through this but HIM. I am so excited about what lies ahead and the things that God has promised in my life. There is absolutely nothing more fulfilling in life than to know you are walking in God’s purpose. It may get hard, you may have to cry, and it will definitely get uncomfortable, but TRUST THE PROCESS. There will be some distinct changes (jobs, people, relationships, expectations, etc.), but it is all working for the greater good. What I KNOW now is that EVERYTHING in this life HAPPENS FOR A REASON and NONE of this catches God by surprise! Rest in knowing that if HE brings you to it, HE will bring you through it. It’s a New Season, and I thank God for the process. On to being a better woman of God! Have a wonderful day and remember to be patient with the process. Be safe, be blessed, and know that I love you. ❤️

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Day 18

Feeling like myself again. It took a few days, a couple weeks, and many hours of tears, pain, and sometimes despair but I made it. Nobody ever tells you that the process is painful. They just tell you to trust it. That’s so much easier said than done! What I will say is this, things that I thought I wouldn’t recover from I have. Feelings I thought wouldn’t go away, did. People I was unsure about forgiving, I have. You see I didn’t and I won’t allow the process to break me! I could have given up, thrown in the towel, vowed to never love again but I didn’t. What I will do is keep loving, love even harder, and remember that to love and be loved is a gift. Not everybody is capable of receiving the gift nor reciprocating it. I’ve learned that God is and will always be the only constant in my life. People change, they walk away, they fail, they mislead, and unfortunately they die. In God should all my trust lie. I am excited about my life and everything that God is doing. I may not understand it, but I trust HIM. Better days are coming, I’m trusting the process. There’s a shift, and I can feel it. Have a wonderful day. Be safe, be blessed, and know that I love you. ❤️

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Day 14

All things are working for my good. How do I know that? Because God is INTENTIONAL, never failing! The less I worry, the better the outcome. Worrying interrupts your faith and belief that God will take care of you. Life happens, situations occur, people change, but God is always with us. Take comfort in knowing that you are never alone. When feelings of doubt, worry, and insecurity begin to develop, start praying. Focus your attention on HIM and I promise your perspective will change. God has created each of us to HIS perfection. Your purpose, your plan, your journey, was designed just for you. Trust the process and know that God loves you, and HE cares for YOU. Have a great day. Be safe, be blessed, and know that I love you.❤️

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Day 11

Standing in your truth and accepting what is can be painful. While facing your life and unseen future can be a bit scary at times, you have to remain faithful and grounded in God’s word. With everything going on in your life stay mindful of what’s important. Don’t get caught up in the emotional battle of what was, yet focus you attention on God and his promises. I struggled with writing anything today as I am forced to face my mother’s birthday and she is no longer here. You see death brings about a variety of feelings and emotions. Topped with life if can be a destructive internal battle. But! It doesn’t have to be. Stand in your truth, allow yourself to be broken, and know that your BEST days are ahead of you. Be safe, be blessed, and know that I love you. ❤️

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Day 8….

Therapy works! I don’t know what is better the tears released or being able to talk and not be judged or ridiculed for being who you are. This process hasn’t been the easiest but it has definitely reaffirmed for me who I am and what I am. I am a fearless woman of God and I can do all things through Christ who is my strength. I may not look like, act like, or talk like others may think I should or desire but that is their problem NOT mine. If God be for me, who shall stand against me? 13 more days to this 21 day process and I couldn’t be more proud of myself. Trust the process and know this too shall pass. Weeping may endure for a night, but JOY comes in the morning. Morning does come. Be safe, be blessed, and know that I love you. ❤️ Happy Friday!

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You never know who you may bless!

Long post ALERT! I don’t usually express the thoughts of my supporters but today I am overjoyed. With my busy life, ministry, family, etc. I often neglect my NuSeasn email. Most people inbox me or text or call or something. I had some downtime this evening and decided to go clean out the junk emails. My email has been flooded, (guess I better check more often) with men and women in relationships or situations that have been hurt or people who have been inspired by something we’ve discussed on live or just the many topics we cover daily. Whatever you do, whatever you say, with whom ever you do it with remember to be honest, be kind, and be loving. There are so many hurt people in this world. I’m no expert but what I will say is be HONEST! If you love them, love hard, love without restrictions, and most of all don’t stop loving. If you need to apologize, get it out the way. Free yourself and others from carrying that baggage. If it’s something inspirational you think to say or to encourage someone else cease the moment. You never know what someone else is going through. None of us get it right all the time, but please don’t stop trying. I’m a big cry baby so I’ll stop there. Just know your support matters and if nobody tells you, I love you!

Thank you all so much for blessing me with your continued support. There’s much more to come. God is good! ❤️