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Day 20

Keep praying. So you make it through the valley and now you feel like prayer isn’t necessary? WRONG! Pray at all times! A consistent prayer life is a necessity! Make it a habit, make it your business, and be intentional about your prayer time. Prayer isn’t just a convenience used when things in our life have been disrupted. Your relationship with God is totally dependent on the time you spend with him. We make time for everything else, spend some time with HIM. You’ll thank me for it later! Have a wonderful Wednesday. Be safe, be blessed, and know that you are loved. ❤️

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Day 19

Now what? Now that you’ve gone through the fire, taken time to process, what’s next? For me, it would have to be staying focused on what matters the most. God! When you lose sight of who and what’s important you find yourself distracted and that’s where the disruption begins. Keep your heart, your mind, and your spirit stayed on God. Everything else will fall into place. Distractions come to knock you off your purpose. Do NOT be deceived! Stay focused and in everything you do put God First! If he allowed it, he’ll get you through it! Trust me, better days are coming. Have a wonderful day. Be safe, be blessed, and know that you are loved. ❤️

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Day 18

Feeling like myself again. It took a few days, a couple weeks, and many hours of tears, pain, and sometimes despair but I made it. Nobody ever tells you that the process is painful. They just tell you to trust it. That’s so much easier said than done! What I will say is this, things that I thought I wouldn’t recover from I have. Feelings I thought wouldn’t go away, did. People I was unsure about forgiving, I have. You see I didn’t and I won’t allow the process to break me! I could have given up, thrown in the towel, vowed to never love again but I didn’t. What I will do is keep loving, love even harder, and remember that to love and be loved is a gift. Not everybody is capable of receiving the gift nor reciprocating it. I’ve learned that God is and will always be the only constant in my life. People change, they walk away, they fail, they mislead, and unfortunately they die. In God should all my trust lie. I am excited about my life and everything that God is doing. I may not understand it, but I trust HIM. Better days are coming, I’m trusting the process. There’s a shift, and I can feel it. Have a wonderful day. Be safe, be blessed, and know that I love you. ❤️

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Day 17

Don’t give up! You are on the homestretch. Don’t get anxious, don’t get frustrated, don’t stress, and don’t worry! God has begun a new thing in you and it’s just about time for all to be revealed. The word brought forth today during worship encouraged us to “Be Patient with the Process.” Sometimes we get so anxious and uncomfortable that we hinder ourselves while in the process. I know it may hurt, you may not understand, and you may just be tied if going through. No matter what keep going, and DON’T GIVE UP! You are so close to your breakthrough!!! The process may be painful, but the reward will be beyond your imagination. Stay the course and trust the process! You’re almost there. Be safe, be blessed, and know that I love you! ❤️

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Day 14

All things are working for my good. How do I know that? Because God is INTENTIONAL, never failing! The less I worry, the better the outcome. Worrying interrupts your faith and belief that God will take care of you. Life happens, situations occur, people change, but God is always with us. Take comfort in knowing that you are never alone. When feelings of doubt, worry, and insecurity begin to develop, start praying. Focus your attention on HIM and I promise your perspective will change. God has created each of us to HIS perfection. Your purpose, your plan, your journey, was designed just for you. Trust the process and know that God loves you, and HE cares for YOU. Have a great day. Be safe, be blessed, and know that I love you.❤️

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Day 12

Continue to pray. Sometimes we get so frustrated with our situation that we don’t feel like God is with us. It’s in these times that we must dig deep in our faith. Even when you feel like God is answering know that he is still with you. Just because it doesn’t look good, or feel good to you doesn’t mean that God isn’t in it. I am learning that I have to release the control and allow God to work. I have been so used to “fixing” everything that I find it hard to let go, and let God. I figure why wait when I can make a decision now. But that is NOT having faith! That’s me operating out of being afraid of failure, afraid of rejection, afraid of not being enough, afraid that things won’t get done. Everyday is a struggle but I won’t give up, and I won’t give in! Instead I will continue to take it all to God in prayer. Prayer changes things. Have a wonderful day! Be safe, be blessed, and know that I love you. ❤️

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Day 10

There will be a few setbacks. Just because you’ve decided to work on you does not mean it’s going to be an easy process. There will be times when all is well and BOOM! An emotional setback. You’re human, it will happen. But KEEP GOING! There is no growth without a little pain and discomfort. These are the times that you should recall your purpose, thank God for the lesson, and remember how far you’ve come. Anything worth having is worth working for and waiting for. Put in the work, and watch how God blesses. Everyday you are one step closer. Have an awesome day. Be safe, be blessed, and know that I love you!❤️

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Day 9

Enjoy yourself. Find ways to keep your mind busy. Sometimes we have to develop a new norm. I find evenings are the most difficult times for me. So, I have adjusted my schedule to include new things to do. Your mind will only do what it has been trained to do. Be careful to not fall into old, unhealthy habit’s. That is a trap of the enemy!!! The enemy doesn’t want you to heal and be happy. He does his best work when you remain stuck, unwilling to change, and uninspired about your future. Surround yourself with positive, uplifting people. Engage in healthy activities that promote and push you towards your purpose. Exercise. Taking care of your body is just as important as taking care of your mind. Get out and move. Lastly, continue to pray. Oftentimes when we begin to feel better our pray life drops off. BIG mistake! Your prayer life is just as important when you are “good” as it is when you’re in the valley. I hope your day is filled with lots of fun and laughter. Be safe, be blessed, and know that I love you. ❤️

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Day 8….

Therapy works! I don’t know what is better the tears released or being able to talk and not be judged or ridiculed for being who you are. This process hasn’t been the easiest but it has definitely reaffirmed for me who I am and what I am. I am a fearless woman of God and I can do all things through Christ who is my strength. I may not look like, act like, or talk like others may think I should or desire but that is their problem NOT mine. If God be for me, who shall stand against me? 13 more days to this 21 day process and I couldn’t be more proud of myself. Trust the process and know this too shall pass. Weeping may endure for a night, but JOY comes in the morning. Morning does come. Be safe, be blessed, and know that I love you. ❤️ Happy Friday!

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Recap….

#21DaysOfHealingRecap

Day 1: Counseling- there is absolutely nothing wrong with seeking professional or spiritual guidance to help maintain your mental health.

Day 2: Battlefield of the Mind- don’t allow anything or anyone to hold your mind hostage. Love hard, forgive quickly, and trust God to bring you out.

Day3: Worship- God is always with you. Don’t fret or worry. He’s done it before he’ll do it again. Worship him in the meanwhile.

Day 4: Self Reflection- Think about why and how you got here. Did you learn or must you repeat the course?

Day 5: Be Encouraged- if you are reading this, he’s given you another opportunity to get it right. Start with a fresh mind and know that with correction comes elevation. Now level up!

Day 6: Clarity- get an understanding. When you have no clarity you welcome chaos. You can’t grow stuck in messy chaotic situations.

Day 7: Control Your Emotions- stop reacting and start praying! Don’t allow the pain to control your life. The more you pray the less time you have to focus on hurt, guilt, issues, and irrelevant situations. PRAY WITHOUT CEASING. He hears your cry…..

Remember, you are NOT in this alone. You can make it out the fire if you just trust the process. Don’t grow weary and don’t give up. Your blessing is on its way! I love you.

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